spectacular speculations.

Hello, I'm Gabi. I like sleeping.
Home Archive Random About Ask


Gianni Versace Fall/Winter 1992-93


Gianni Versace Fall/Winter 1992-93

via thechicwitch / 3 hours ago / 177 notes / versace 

Black parenting is often too authoritative. White parenting is often too permissive. Both need to change.

In college, I once found myself on the D.C. metro with one of my favorite professors. As we were riding, a young white child began to climb on the seats and hang from the bars of the train. His mother never moved to restrain him. But I began to see the very familiar, strained looks of disdain and dismay on the countenances of the mostly black passengers. They exchanged eye contact with one another, dispositions tight with annoyance at the audacity of this white child, but mostly at the refusal of his mother to act as a disciplinarian. I, too, was appalled. I thought, if that were my child, I would snatch him down and tell him to sit his little behind in a seat immediately. My professor took the opportunity to teach: ‘Do you see how this child feels the prerogative to roam freely in this train, unhindered by rules or regulations or propriety?’

'Yes,' I nodded. “What kinds of messages do you think are being communicated to him right now about how he should move through the world?”

And I began to understand, quite starkly, in that moment, the freedom that white children have to see the world as a place that they can explore, a place in which they can sit, or stand, or climb at will. The world, they are learning, is theirs for the taking.

Then I thought about what it means to parent a black child, any black child, in similar circumstances. I think of the swiftness with which a black mother would have ushered her child into a seat, with firm looks and not a little a scolding, the implied if unspoken threat of either a grounding or a whupping, if her request were not immediately met with compliance. So much is wrapped up in that moment: a desire to demonstrate that one’s black child is well-behaved, non-threatening, well-trained. Disciplined. I think of the centuries of imminent fear that have shaped and contoured African-American working-class cultures of discipline, the sternness of our mothers’ and grandmothers’ looks, the firmness of the belts and switches applied to our hind parts, the rhythmic, loving, painful scoldings accompanying spankings as if the messages could be imprinted on our bodies with a sure and swift and repetitive show of force.

I think with fond memories of the big tree that grew in my grandmother’s yard, with branches that were the perfect size for switches. I hear her booming and shrill voice now, commanding, “Go and pick a switch.” I laugh when I remember that she cut that tree down once we were all past the age of switches.

And then I turn to Adrian Peterson. Not even a year ago, Peterson’s 2-year-old son, whom he did not know, was murdered by his son’s mother’s boyfriend. More recently, Adrian Peterson has been charged with negligent injury to a child, for hitting his 4-year-old son with a switch, in a disciplinary episode that left the child with bruises and open cuts on his hands, legs, buttocks and scrotum.

Brittney C Cooper, Ph.D., "The racial parenting divide: What Adrian Peterson reveals about black vs. white child-rearing" (via jolinxo)

(Source: sonofbaldwin)

via 5ft1 / 7 hours ago / 724 notes


The Door by Ava DuVernay - Miu Miu Women’s Tale #5

via wubangs / 8 hours ago / 670 notes / miu miu 

September 17 - Arriving in Athens, Greece

(Source: fuckyeahladygaga)

They’re paying us $1884 for living in this beautiful shithole!! Bless jah!!

9 hours ago / 2 notes / pfd  alaska 

My good friend Kienan is a student at the School of Film & Photography at Montana State University. He’s currently working on the set of a senior film project called "Insolvency". They’re currently in the process of collecting funds to be able to afford all the shit that goes into creating a movie and maintaining a crew. If all goes as planned, Kienan will get film set experience which will aid him greatly in his future endeavors.

You can donate here! The indiegogo page is sent up to where you can donate as little as a dollar. Every little bit counts. Reblog/spread the word! Support film students and the humanities in general! 


anais mali for dolce & gabbana skincare the vision: image of beauty


anais mali for dolce & gabbana skincare
the vision: image of beauty

via thechicwitch / 1 day ago / 7,523 notes / anais mali 

(Source: kanemura)

via thechicwitch / 1 day ago / 1,514 notes / lil baby  lady gaga 

via moreth4nlife / 1 day ago / 62,822 notes / wha dis from? 
Page 1 of 449
Alternative Theme by maggie. Powered by Tumblr.